I suggest then we move to the final extreme of proximity, a complete stranger. I am hosting this webpage on Neo Cities a free website builder with 0 privacy settings. To get to my page all you need to do is type ASU in the tags section and mine will be the third result. 300 or so people have seen it already, and I am fine with that. To each of those people I am anonymous even with the personal information I have divulged. I have found that being honest with someone you will never see or meet is easier than being honest to someone you know just a little bit about. I am writing this for strangers who are willing to empathize.